The Bathroom Boo-Boo

Okay- so I'm not about to sit here and profess that I am the perfect diy-er. Nope, completely the opposite. I am taking it all as it comes and learning from my experiences. I am super new to this whole thing. Furthermore, just because I was able to master one project does not necessarily mean that I will be able to conquer a similar project. Case in point- staining the bathroom vanity.
I thought that through my trials and tribulations that I encountered while re-finishing a yard sale dresser meant that I had the staining process down. Not so :( In fact, I may be so bold as to say that my staining days are over.

As I mentioned in a previous post- I wanted to start working in the hallway bathroom. Specifically I wanted to "remodel it without remodeling it" and working with/updating what we have in there. My vanity solution? Take the light and bright birch vanity and transform it into a rich and bold mahogany vanity with new brushed nickel door hardware. I spent this past weekend removing the doors and drawer fronts and sanding off all of the old veneer to guarantee a smooth application of the stain. After hours and hours of using our power sander I followed up with using our newly acquired handheld Dremel to get in all the nooks and crannies of the cabinets. (Don't know what a Dremel is? Think a hardcore heavy duty version of what they use on your finger nails when you get your nails done.) After mucho mucho sanding- I ended up with this:Looks good right? Looks like I did a pretty darn thorough job getting all that old polyeurathane off to ensure a smooth and even coat of stain, right? Well, maybe it looks that way.... but... well let me just further explain how the whole thing went down.

After spending forever sanding these puppies down and looking like I had just walked out of a fight with a dust storm (yes, I was that covered with saw dust) I wiped off the excess dust from the doors and applied a coat of a pre-stain wood conditioner. This product is supposed to ensure what I had been working so hard to accomplish- even application of the stain. Let me tell you- if the staining process went as smoothly as the pre-stain conditioning process, I would be writing an entirely different blog entry right now. Oh, this is where the happy part of the story ends. With my desire to make this process more efficient I obtained a stain that combined the staining of the wood with the sealing of the wood. Yes, I bought a stain that had the polyeurathane mixed in with it. Tisk tisk. That was a mistake. With the polyeurathane mixed in already it created a sticky glue-like application. Not the best thing when your trying to achieve a uniform look. Let me just say now, if you are looking to do some stain work in the future: DO NOT GET THE STAIN WITH THE POLYEURATHANE MIXED IN! GET THEM IN TWO SEPARATE CANS TO BE APPLIED AT DIFFERENT TIMES!!!

This is what the first coat looked like:
Alright, it didn't apply evenly and it isn't even close to being as rich of a color as indicated on the can and the samples provided at the store. But the can says that you can apply up to four coats to achieve a uniform look or a deeper color. What the can doesn't say is that with each additional coat of stain you are fighting against the stickiness of it all which makes application that much more difficult.

Here's coat #2:Umm... it's starting to look messier! Not more even. Definitely deeper in color but it's harder to cover up inconsistencies when the color is so deep! "Well, I thought, the can says up to four coats. Maybe it gets better." WRONG!

Coat #3:
OH. MY. GOSH. I am not a happy camper. Not only did I just spend my entire weekend working on this but it would take me FOREVER to get this stuff back off. Painting over it would have been an option if the polyeurathane was not mixed in. But since it is- it would be like painting over latex paint... it'll just peel right off.

Thomas had to console me when I sat in our backyard holding my head in my hands and unleashing my tears of defeat. "It doesn't look that bad," he said. But that's not the point. It's not about how far down the spectrum of bad it is. It isn't supposed to look bad at all! Not even a little bit :( The whole point of a diy project is to do something for your home that saves you money, gives you a feeling of accomplishment, and looks just as amazing as if you had paid someone an arm and a leg to do it for you. That is not what happened here.

But I'm not ashamed. I made a mistake. I tried to take a shortcut when I should have stuck with a process had worked for me before. I'm still planning on doing a lot of work on this house. My diy days are not over! I may have lost this battle- but I haven't lost the war! Am I getting too crazy here? Seriously, what war?

Anyway, I am looking into having someone come out and give us some estimates on refinishing the cabinets for us- the right way. With just a small vanity- it shouldn't break the bank, or my spirit. No more tears will be shed over a badly stained cabinet. And fortunately I only started on the doors. The base of the vanity is still untouched and will look like this for a while until I can figure out a way to finish the project.